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 The benefits of nagging.

8/5/2015

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 Um. Let me see …

1) You present your opinion on a given subject in a consistant way—just so the other person doesn't forget. That shows dedication.

2) You emphasise your point of view—just so they don't think you've changed your mind. That shows good teaching and communication skills.

3) You insist on your opinion being understood. That shows your strength of purpose.

The latest news demonstrates how these sterling qualities were used to save a life.
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 A UK man from Yorkshire, spoke to his doctor at the local surgery. He'd been planting trees and asked the GP to look at a small painful cut on his lower arm.

But over the course of a day’s bed rest, his condition worsened to the point that he was rushed to A&E. Doctors were initially baffled. But when his body began to shut down from multiple organ failure caused by a deadly infection that had entered his bloodstream, there was nothing more medical staff could do for him.

He went into a coma. Members of his family remained at his bedside 24 hours a day, speaking to him. Instead of despairing, his wife gave him a piece of her mind, insisting, over and over, that he get better for her and their two sons.

Six days later, he made a miraculous recovery.

Unbeknown to them, the forty-two year old man, had been heard every word. He said, “She never lost faith in me, and I genuinely think that her constant support helped me to make it through.” 
Source: Express.

So you see, the constancy, dedication, emphasis, teaching skills and downright strength involved in nagging can be used to good effect if similar circumstances happen to you. Persevere with your practice. Speak on, naggers, speak on.


8 Comments
Alana link
8/4/2015 08:31:16 pm

Not totally on topic, but my cousin's daughter was injured in a car accident with pain that didn't make sense. He kept after the doctors and they finally discovered a tiny hole in her small intestine. Operated, and she recovered. If the hole had not been discovered and closed, she may have died. Many times life is more about perseverance than talent - and we naggers do have plenty of the former. So there, dear husband!

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Scott link
8/5/2015 12:57:46 am

I think this might have been an anomaly. The phrase "nagging to death" is there for a reason!

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Amy Bovaird link
8/5/2015 04:53:46 am

Francene,
Ha ha! I loved this! Enjoyed your spin on nagging and had a good laugh. Yes, it can indeed be viewed in this way and I think I will remember this example!
Amy

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Roy A Ackerman, PhD, EA @ Cerebrations.biz link
8/5/2015 01:17:02 pm

There's a fine line between nagging and bitching. When that line is crossed, the reactions will be worse- and folks like this subject may not have received any consideration from his health professionals.
Keep on the lighter side.

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Nabanita link
8/5/2015 04:19:48 pm

You know I have heard such things earlier as well...I guess I should continue the nagging now for ever :)

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Leanne link
8/7/2015 10:05:15 pm

I am a great believer in the benefits of nagging - my husband always quotes Proverbs - "water wears rock" :) My children turned out okay so it must have some positive aspects to it! ~ Leanne

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Julie Jo Severson link
8/7/2015 11:22:25 pm

I'll certainly remember this story from the UK if someone I love is ever in that critical situation!

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Ajay Pai link
8/9/2015 12:25:11 am

aha! That was interesting. Nagging turned to have a positive side. strange and good for the family.

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