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Should religion force fashion?

1/29/2015

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When the US president and his wife paid their respects to the late King Abdullah two days ago, she didn't wear a headscarf during the brief visit although she wore a long dress with sleeves.

Her uncovered head caused consternation, and highlighted the restrictions placed on women in Saudi Arabia.

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Women living in the ultra-conservative Kingdom, face severe restraints. They must cover their hair and wear loose black robes in public at all times, they are banned from driving, and must be accompanied by a male chaperone when they leave the house.


Other women and most men at the ceremony displayed their hair, so the trend wasn't about everyone showing respect in a certain way. What if a country's custom required women to wear goggles? Or walk barefooted? Should religious rules be imposed on visiting foreigners?

I agree that everyone should be free to worship the way they choose, or have conformed to for all their life, or even to shun all religion. To me, it speaks of a person's spiritual evolution. I prefer to follow a private communication with a Higher Power.

However, we shouldn't insist on every visitor deviating from their own custom or dress.

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Fashion is a fleeting state of adornment. Trends come and go, and not everyone bothers to follow the herd.

US Presidents have visited Saudi Arabia 13 times since 1945. The photo shows President Nixon and his scarf-less wife in 1971. See the Washington Post article with pictures. 

Do you think 'rules is rules'? Or should we conform when visiting another country?


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Alana link
1/28/2015 07:34:14 pm

As someone who majored in cultural anthropology, I was taught to respect all human customs, and that they were all "valid expressions". But, as a senior, I started to question that. An anthropologist should accept "customs" such as female circumcision? Wife beating? I think Michelle Obama did the right thing. If she had shown up in a bikini (obviously, she wouldn't have) that would have been different.

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Ashley
1/28/2015 09:47:38 pm

I agree, I don't think she did anything wrong. I also, like to have a private relationship with my higher power. I couldn't imagine living in the USA and not being able to leave my house without a male chaperon. I don't even know how I would live my life that way :(

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melody pittman link
1/28/2015 09:48:31 pm

Absolutely. As they say, when in rome. Though I may or may not agree with that cultural's customs, I would certainly respect them if visiting. Just the same as I would expect someone to respect the wishes I have inside my home, it goes without saying that I would be offended if they didn't. The President's wife is representing our country and I felt it was disrespectful and rude regardless of how she feels about what I would call their antiquated measures. They are still their own.

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Ruthanne link
1/28/2015 09:58:55 pm

Americans are prone to not being aware of other cultural norms, which I think it why Americans have a bad reputation overseas. My default, when in doubt, is to defer to the cultural etiquette you're visiting, but at some point, as you bring out, there needs to be a line. Some may say it's not fair for Michelle to catch extra heat because of her un-adornment, but she is also is not the average tourist, and needs to take some extra thought into how she dresses in such a society.

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Amy link
1/28/2015 10:07:37 pm

If somebody visits our church with me, I would hope that they would be respectful, but I wouldn't expect them to pray with us or do the same rituals that we do each week, unless they wanted to. I don't think a woman visiting Saudi Arabia should be coerced into observing their religious rituals, either.

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Ina
1/29/2015 02:06:54 am

Thisi s a really catch 22 question. The problem is no religion is a dictator - the practioners are. If prior visits of the Presidents did not raise any questions, this this time too it should not. Eating the food to show that you want to know about the culture, singing the songs or even including dialogues during a speech in the countries language is fun and taken in the right spirits. But beyond that any force is dictatorship ..

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baju pesta link
4/29/2015 02:18:12 pm

very nice article I am very happy with the language

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