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 Lonely people need to talk.

10/23/2015

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 A UK radio station invited a regular listener into the studio for coffee when he admitted he was feeling lonely.

95-year-old 'Bill' from Southampton called BBC Radio Solent during a mid-morning show last week.

During the conversation, Bill revealed his wife had been taken into a nursing home after a bad fall.

The pair had been friends for 30 years before they wed last year. Bill said he was "missing her" and he visited her every day, BuzzFeed reported.

On hearing his story, the radio station team organised a taxi to pick Bill up and bring him to the studio. He became an honorary 'special guest' and even fielded calls from listeners. Source: The Independent.

What a great Good Samaritan story. The gesture benefited both parties, and spread the feel-good factor to their listeners too.

After all, a lonely person just wants a sympathetic listener.
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Loneliness by Hans Thoma (National Museum in Warsaw). en.wikipedia.org
 Opera says: 

A small gesture—an offhand invitation to lunch—is often a better antidote than showering someone with too much attention.

Offer to accompany someone to a medical appointment. One study found that doctors said they treat socially isolated people less well than patients with supportive families, and they've seen other health practitioners do the same.

(Our neighbour always takes my husband to his hospital appointments, and sits in to give him mental support.)

Remind your friend that doing things alone—going to a movie, eating out—is hard for a lot of people, especially the first time. You might take her to the coffee shop that gives you a sense of community when you're on your own and volunteer to help find a place in her neighborhood.

When I answered the loneliness quiz questions, I got a high score. However, by reaching out to people over the WWW, I feel as if I'm conected. Of course, nothing would beat a real cup of coffee with someone I respect.

Take your own loneliness quiz. 

Go out and spread the kindness, people. Be a friend to someone in need.
6 Comments
Suzy link
10/23/2015 03:00:35 am

I think the quiz is designed so that we all get a high score. Just a phone call is often enough to make someone feel loved. Good post.

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Alana link
10/23/2015 03:19:14 am

A story that makes you feel good, I fear that my mother in law is suffering from loneliness. Her move up here, necessary to be near her children, also removed her from some of her support network. As we age, there are no easy answers to loneliness. Someone I know who works in a retail job sees this all the time - people who just need someone to talk to.

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Soumya link
10/23/2015 06:10:47 am

Loneliness is a horrible place to be in. I do not wish that for my enemy even.

We need to forget quizzes and technology and go out there to meet people. Nothing like human interaction to forget loneliness,

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Angel Stew & Devil's Brew link
10/23/2015 11:20:43 am

When I saw that story in my FB feed I immediately thought of my parents, and even though they're both gone now, I still see them in every 70, 80, 90 year old person I see and I offer kindness and a smile and a brief chit chat if we're in the store because it's important sometimes just to be noticed.. Just because people get to have a ton of birthdays doesn't make them any less of a human being.. I always consider anyone my parents age or older, as fountains of information and wisdom, they are treasures and should be treated as such.

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Ruthanne link
10/24/2015 07:09:30 am

It's important to reach out to those who are overlooked by society. - There are people to reach out to wherever we go, in whatever circles we travel. Thanks for raising the awareness.

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Jim Bauer link
10/24/2015 02:24:39 pm

I am not going to lie. I like my alone time whenever I can get it. But still, nothing trumps having someone around MORE of the time than LESS of the time to share everything life has to offer with.

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