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Have you ever considered greeting disabled people?

3/11/2015

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Residents of Istanbul surprised a deaf man by learning how to sign. The touching kindness was only blemished by being an advert for a major brand. More on that later.

The story: A deaf man's sister teamed up with Samsung for the stunt. Months of preparation went into learning the sign language and setting up cameras around the neighbourhood.

In the video, a passing pedestrian signs hello to Muaharrem and his sister, the man in the local shops signs the day's selection of bagels. Then the very next person they encounter drops his purchases and signs that he'd like to offer them an apple as thanks. When a cab driver communicates this way, Muaharrem wonders what's going on.

The pair end their journey in a public square, where the stunt is revealed and Muaharrem's neighbours are waiting to greet them.

Surrounded by Samsung branding, he winds up in tears. The video is well worth watching to see how people were trained, cameramen set up, and how the young man reacted. Source: The Independent. 

Of course, there's the usual ad to watch before the video, or the option to skip it. Why are everyday videos, even those promoting books or showing a funny clip on Facebook, preceded by an advertisement nowadays? Well of course, everything has to be paid for. I guess Samsung's promotion for hearing-impaired people must have cost a lot of money which needs to be recouped.

However, the main focus is the way the people in Muaharrem's area showed a willingness to learn something new, to show kindness, and to include a disabled man in their lives. Even if they were paid to do so, it still gives us all hope for a more inclusive society.

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I don't see that kindness in my everyday life. I walk painfully up and down the hill clinging to my rollator every day, passing occasional joggers or walkers who pass the tortoise in a flash of bunny hops. I hold a non-confrontational smile ready to break into a greeting, but am rarely rewarded. That's my total connection with anyone outside my home now my husband is too ill to lift the cumbersome device in and out of the car to take me shopping.

I'm not bitter. I didn't live through the self-sufficient seventies without learning to rely on my own attributes. I can write and communicate on social sites, unlike many of my internet-shy peers.


How do you treat elderly people? Let's, at least, smile at strangers we meet. It costs nothing and is readily available. You could give someone a boost.


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Alana link
3/10/2015 08:16:27 pm

I was once a self absorbed young person, I admit. I know now that inside an older/disabled person, is a human being, just like me. But I still see enough of the kind of behavior you describe, Francene. Life does have a way of circling back on people and biting them - those young people may be in your position one day, and then they will know. Not that it does any good right now.

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Tami Principe link
3/11/2015 12:00:04 am

I say hello and have a great day to many people during the day. I find people amazing and I try to convey that through my conversations as much as possible. I dislike when I meet an interesting person but have to rush due to time constraints. I treat everyone the same upbeat attitude. Life is too short to have it any other way. Nice blog!

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Sophie Bowns link
3/11/2015 12:55:09 am

I saw that video on Facebook- I cried, it was incredibly moving.
I try to smile and say hello to other people as often as I can.

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Bethany Miller link
3/11/2015 04:20:56 am

Francene, you have such a beautiful heart. This is a subject that is often ignored, I think. I lived with my grandmother for awhile, and realized how very lonely the elderly get. Such a tough, tough time in life. That is what prompted me to really reach out to those around me. Thanks for the great reminder, and the beautiful story.

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Carol Cassara link
3/11/2015 05:03:30 am

I learned to say hi to everyone when I lived in the south. I was suspicious the first few times it happened to me but then I went with it and never looked back.

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