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How vulnerable teenage girls need protection.

2/21/2015

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PictureTeen fashion 2014
Fears are growing for the safety of three east London schoolgirls who police believe are trying to cross the Turkish-Syrian border to join Islamic State (IS) extremists.

Police have issued an urgent appeal for help in finding them, suggesting they are "extremely vulnerable". The three teenage girls were last seen on Tuesday morning during the school holidays. The girls, aged from 15 to 17 years, told their parents they were going out for the day, but were photographed going through the airport scan. Maybe they were given false promises and didn't realize they would enter a war zone or that they will not be equal to their male counterparts. With winter clogging up the roads, and transport links hindered, they may still be in Turkey.

Young teenagers are so gullible, yet these girls must have enough money to book the ticket and know how to travel to foreign countries unaccompanied.

While I was younger than these girls in the 50s, money was scarce and no child could dream about a trip abroad. I'm going back to my youth again to remember my early teenage years in Australia to see what could have happened to me.

In 1954, at the age of twelve, I left primary school to attend secondary school, which required more of a walk each day. For the first time, I wore a uniform, large starched white collar on a buttoned check dress, white socks under lace-up shoes and gloves worn at all times outside the building.

The news often mentions how predator teachers approach students, and that happened to me. While I happily sang in the choir, the teacher complimented me on my voice. He singled several girls out for special attention. I basked in his praise. At the lunch break, he invited one girl at a time into the tuck shop in the hall to help sell sweets. I went in once, full of excitement. He let me choose a chocolate bar, something special in those days and not an everyday treat, and he leaned close behind me. However, I never got another turn because he was removed from the school under dark murmurings. A lucky escape for me, in hindsight.

PictureSunday best 1954 - girls 7 & 15 yrs
Every Sunday, my sisters and I attended Sunday School at a church close to the primary school, when we'd dress in our Sunday best. There we could sing to our heart's content. I learned about how a stone thrown into a pool causes ripples to spread right to the edge, the stone being our good influence which would affect everybody else.

Although I took a packed lunch to school, my mother always reserved enough money for me to buy a 'sundae' at the shop over the road from the building. When I look back, I can appreciate how much of a sacrifice that must have been. I really appreciated the luxury, remembering the times before when my sisters and I would beg from the chip shop little serves of leftover fried batter. It would be wrapped in newspaper and we'd eat it straight from the pack as we walked along the street.


In the two years I attended secondary school, I grew very tall, nearly my full height of 5'10”. One kind teacher thought I'd outgrown my strength and used to let me lie in the sick room when I broke down sobbing. I guess these years are difficult for any girl, especially one with a mother working part-time and no father at home to support the family. And so, at the end of 1955, I finished at the secondary school and prepared to go to MacRobertson's Girls High School, close to Melbourne. I'd need to catch the tram to get there from Prahran, and looked forward to reaching 14 years during the summer break.

Hope springs eternal in young hearts. Woe betide anyone who shatters their innocence.

Do you have a story about a lucky escape from danger?


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Joan Harrington link
2/21/2015 12:47:56 am

Hi Francene,

Such an important topic and awesome post! Great share!!

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Alana link
2/21/2015 06:58:48 am

Yes, I do. I was stalked as a teenager, by a man who started to follow me on public transit from my orthodontist, which I went to (alone, of course, in those days) several times a month. Then, he started to follow me in other of my travels, and I knew it was not coincidence. There was no one at home because my Mom had died and my Dad was at work and I was an only child. It did have a happy ending, but affected me for a long time.

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Amy Bovaird link
2/21/2015 07:53:58 am

I have a frightening story as well. I was living in South Texas taking care of one house but staying in another. It was dark and the neighbor across the street called to tell me there was a man hanging around the property next door. I got the scissors and went out to investigate. When I didn't see anyone, I returned to the house I was staying in. Shortly after I closed and locked the door, someone came and knocked. Then, rattled the doorknob. I received s second call from the neighbor and he said, "He's at your door now in shadows." I hung up and hid in the bedroom, locking the door. Now that I look back on the situation, I wonder why the man across the street didn't call the police. And why did I go after a man in the dark with scissors poised in mock bravery?!

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